Our Lewy Body Dementia and Parkinson disease journey...lie

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 Our Lewy Body Dementia and Parkinson disease journey...lie

I was told today that I am to honest. To get help for hubby I need to learn to lie. This person is legal separated from her hubby but has never left him. They live together but she gets all kinds of government help. She works but also gets a caregiver to come in for 4 hours per day FREE...government pays. She gets her pay check and then helps for him. Mercy....others say you have to learn to play the game...if you do you get help. Well...I am not a good liar.....if I did my conscience would keep me up all night crying...so best just be honest. Yes, we have checked into getting help with hubby...so far it's a NO GO....most can not deal with his disease. So I just pray and tell the Lord..."Lord I could really use some help" and I know he will answer in his time. Also could use a few prayers that our home sells before winter. Don't want to deal with two homes through the winter months. Also...drives me crazy how with these disease no one knows what is the right meds....every doctor says it's different with each person and the amount is different for each person, so they say for me to try different scenarios....but when I do I have to contact the neurologist and let her know....again MERCY.....his blood pressure was real bad today but I got it to come down...so he has been sleeping a lot today. thanks for the prayers and God bless all of you for following our journey and keeping us in your prayers.

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